When things are not going well, what is a parent's response? What if some things are going well but others are not? There are many ways to react?
- Ignore it and hope the troubles will go away. I would not recommend this. I have not seen things get better with this approach.
- Over- react to the situation. This can take several forms. One is anger at either the child, the teacher or both. It can result in depression because your own perceived shortcomings. If only I would of done a better job of ............. I would not recommend this reactive strategy because it usually does not help.
- Begin where you are to seek solutions to change the trajectory. This may involve conversations with everyone involved. The older the child, the more he should be involved. This is just the first step in the problem solving process.