One thing I have noticed with families with special needs is that some families stay the course and some don't seem to be able to do that. No matter what your child's level is currently, he or she can probably get to the next level. Once the reality of disability sets in and the loss has been adequately grieved, it's time to make new dreams. I pray that each one of you can make those kind of dreams a reality. Oh yes, it is time for perspiration if we are going to stay the course!